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Change is what some call it. Way of living is what I refer
to it. I think and I strongly believe that changes are good and they are
crucial. One cannot expect to lead the same kind of life, irrespective of how
much they love it all their life. There are times when they have to or rather
they will to need to break through all the walls and all the boundaries that
surround them and lead a new life. A life that they want to lead. A life that
is care free. A life that they wish to lead with their set of principles and
their set of rules.
So here is a glimpse of how I was as a kid and to what I
have grown up to be. With constant remarks from people around telling me that I
have changed and my way of living is not right or rather not something that the
society can accept. As a kid I was very attached to my mother. Attachment is
good but over attachment can make you weak and to have your greatest strength
(your mother) turn into a weakness is not how I wanted my life to shape up. So
with a very heavy heart I decided to join boarding in the 7th
standard. Everybody in the family and also all the relatives thought it was not
going to work and I would return the very next day as I had not stayed without
my mother even for a single day.
But well I did stay. Not just for a day but for years
together. Away from the comforts of my house. Away from my beloved family and
away from my mother, my everything. This changed me as a person. I grew up to
be a stronger and a more confident person. Initially I did miss my mother but later
I learnt to live without her. This was the first bold move of my life. Next big
thing that I did was finding a job away from home. So well after my high
school, I returned back home. Away from home doesn’t necessarily mean away from
heart, right? So of course the love for my mother and everybody else in the
family was still a lot. I did my college and finally when it came to
placements, I chose to move out. I chose to move to a better city, with a
better prospects. I choose to move to Bangalore from my city of residence-
Ujjain. Everybody in the family objected this, my mother too. She said that she
didn’t want me to go because the society would think that it’s the boarding
that has changed me and I was supposed to be the girl who would stay back home and
cook and do all the household chores and not move out of the city like this.
But I chose the latter and with a lot of pride I can say that was my
#StartANewLife.
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